Marriage: Are We Actually Selfish? – Ep214

Are we actually selfish?

With Chris doing therapy for almost 30 years, there is not much that is said in a session that really rattles him. But there was one question that he recently received that really made him rethink not only his professional opinion but also in his personal life. The question had to do with the idea of when you give more, you receive more, but is that true in relationships.

Tune in to see if We are Actually Selfish Through a Therapist’s Eyes.

Listen for the following takeaways from the show:

  • When you give to others you receive so much more, but why does that not work in marriage.
  • When you are in a selflessness mindset you get more rewards.
  • Do you just love it when, or if your spouse announces to you they will be going to therapy?
  • Do you believe you are usually trying to help your spouse?
  • Might this be disguised with actually a self serving attitude?
  • How would you react if your partner told you they are going to therapy?
  • Co-Dependence is when you become what the other person is, so you live you life based on how it makes the other person feel.
  • What does Service really Look like in a healthy marriage?
  • Self Care is a way to help you be selfless.
  • Definition of Forgiveness in a children’s Dictionary.

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Episode #214 Transcription

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